How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

I very sick once. My leg waswas not lifting. The body was completely weakened. The body felt completely tired. It was difficult to get up and sit down. I was wearing heavy rings in my ears and I couldn’t take them off. As a result, both my ears ruptured and I had to undergo an ear surgery. At that time no relatives and friends helped. I used to call them home and cook them dinner but they did not help me at all. This is a true incident that happened in my life.